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State of the Family

The day after the President’s “First 100 days” speech seems like perfect timing to do a little update on our family’s current happenings (no approval ratings will be taken).

THE SWINE FLU– After all of the input lately about how to keep your children safe from the swine flu (and even Mr. President reminding us to cover our mouths when we cough), I’m pretty sure that if this flu is contagious in public places Cbug will be a prime candidate. Just while at church last night he ate (someone else’s) popcorn off of the floor, played peek-a-boo with his bear in and out of the trash can and walked across the church barefoot all the while sucking his thumb. No amount of hand washing can negate his germ-infested life right now.

THE ECONOMY– There are two economical issues in our house this last week. First, our dryer suddenly started taking HOURS to dry even small loads of laundry. Thanks to tips from friends and RRL’s resourcefulness we checked the vent to outside and founds a LARGE bird’s nest nearly blocking the entire vent. Thank you, birds. I can’t wait to see the electricity bill you caused this month.

Also, I decided about a week ago to do my part to help our family economics by getting KJ out of diapers. Really, the bill for 3 in diapers is going to be N-U-T-S. The first day was really rough and even literally brought me to my knees in prayer (beside the toilet). I was so frustrated- not with him, just with trying to know how to explain it to him. However, by the end of the second day, I was ready to write a book on potty-training. I mean, it was awesome. He was all over it, always told me when he needed to go and he was so proud of himself. UNTIL he woke up from his nap on the third day and declared “I’m not big anymore, I need the diapers back” and promptly quit peeing anywhere except on the floor or in a diaper. SERIOUSLY? I just waved the white flag in surrender and let him have the diapers back. At least I know he knows HOW now and hopefully soon he’ll also decide that he’s on board. He’s asked to go off and on since then, but ONLY goes when it is his idea and he initiates. Wonder where he gets that stubborn streak?

HEALTH CARE– It is impossible for me to fathom still that we are 6 weeks or less away from being a family of FIVE. After my next appointment, I’ll start going to the doctor every week so we are really getting close. Her room still needs some work and I’ll admit to having moments when I’m not sure I’m ready to be a momma to three. I pray everyday that I’ll be able to meet their needs, that no one will feel left out, and that the Lord will fill in the massive gaps in what I am able to teach them. I’m so thankful that baby sister seems really healthy and I love feeling her squirming around. What a privilege! The larger my belly gets, though, the more and more we get interesting comments from strangers. You would think no one has ever before been out in public pregnant with small children. I always call us the circus act as people stare at the boys (thinking they are twins) then at my belly.

MARRIAGERRL and I got to have a fun overnight trip last weekend when we left the boys with Grammy and traveled to his 3rd ½ marathon. We went with a pretty big group from church who all run together (or cheer together in some cases). We had so much fun having dinner with friends, enjoying the race festivities, just having a break from things at home. We relished the time together, knowing it was probably our last little get-a-way before baby sister’s arrival.

That’s the latest from our home front. My job sounds a lot more fun than Mr. Obama’s, don’t ya think?

ABL

Sandbox

RRL fixed up the sandbox in our backyard just in time for some spring fun! The boys LOVE it, and I love to watch them play together.

KJ is very intentional about nearly EVERYTHING (wonder where he gets that). I love the tongue hanging out, concentrating while he works on the sand…or as he would say “his job”.


Of course, Cbug also loves to eat it and dump it and make QUITE a mess.



Oh, Lord, please bless the paths these little feet will walk. Help them to choose the narrow road you have marked out for them.


ABL

Fake Family??

A few weeks ago, a good friend who works for the local Childrens’ Hospital called to ask for a favor. The hospital was doing a photo shoot for advertising and informational purposes and needed some kids to come participate. I was VERY reluctant. I mean, I know my kids are incredibly cute (can’t throw things, its MY blog) and who WOULDN’T want to look at them in a brochure, but lets be honest…at this point in our lives trying to pose the two little rascals for decent pictures is one of the most stressful situations you can place us in.

Long story short, though, all of my excuses ran out (my haircut got canceled, the boys took great naps earlier than usual, the weather was perfect, etc) so we decided to go. AND WHAT AN UNEXPECTED BLESSING! We got some FREE professional pictures, by a photographer that was great at working with kids, and I only mildly sweated through my shirt in the process. Here are a few of my favorites…


There were two funny things that happened which I held over our friends’ head for awhile for “tricking me” into doing this:

1) When I got out of our van, the lady from the hospital that was in charge said “Oh, GOOD, I was really hoping we would get an expectant mother in some of the shots”. UMMMMM, excuse me, didn’t you see the two adorable blonds I brought with me. This is really about them, if anything I’ll make a nice background. But alas, they did take some photos of my nice round belly.

2) RRL couldn’t go with us and apparently there was a “vision” for a complete family in the photos…with an expectant mother. So, they asked if I would mind posing with a fake family- another man and his son. ACKWARD. In fact, so ackward that the photographer kept saying “If you guys want to look like a family, you are going to have to scoot a little closer and quit looking so uncomfortable”. Geez, how can you look NOT look uncomfortable “cuddled” up on a picnic blanket with another man. Pretty sure I haven’t been on a picnic blanket with anyone besides RRL since maybe highschool. No, not uncomfortable at all.

All of that to say, if you happen to see us in a brochure about the Children’s Hospital, just be assured…my marriage (to RRL) is intact, I haven’t traded in my kids for older models, and our kids are perfectly healthy, having never actually been admitted to CCHospital (praise the Lord!). But we did get some free pictures out of the deal.

ABL

On a mission

Two years ago we got some fun pictures in the bluebonnets with one of KJ’s best buddies. The boys did not love the experience (at all), but the flowers were pretty!

Last year we had trouble finding a good place to take the traditional pictures, so I did not get any…which lead to this springs MISSION. I was out to find a perfect patch, without driving 4 hours. I may or may not occasionally have some obsessive tendencies. I may or may not occassionally get an idea in my head and absolutely NOT be able to let it go until I have accomplished the task- big or small. The bluebonnet pictures shouldn’t have been a big deal, but I got the idea in my head and couldn’t let it rest. I actually even enlisted the services of the state’s department of transportation website to help me find a patch in our area (I know, out of control).

In the end, all of the research and planning was totally worth it (please wait awhile longer before you ask RRL if he thinks it was worth it). We went with reasonable expectations, knowing that we had a 50/50 shot of happy children and even lower odds for both of them being happy at the same time. But we were pleasantly surprised with the results. RRL was the photographer and I’d say he did a pretty incredible job…and did not complain ONE TIME about driving 45 minutes to let me accomplish this crazy mission in a just average bluebonnet patch. What a great man!!


Couldn’t you just eat them up (the boys, not the flowers)? I love when we are able to capture their fun-loving personalities. We are so blessed by both of these joys!!

ABL

Blessed

We’ve joked that poor Cbug could not have had worse timing for his birth. I mean, really, if he HAD to come 3 weeks early couldn’t he have just come about 3 days earlier than he did? 3 days earlier would have meant some really important things for him…like a nice tax deduction as well as helping us further benefit from the tax stimulus plan. See what I mean? Those 3 days really cost us.

Our church does an amazing baby blessing once a year for all the babies born during the previous calendar year. So, even though Cbug was 3-months-old at the time the 2007 babies were celebrated, he just went to the blessing as a spectator and had to wait until this April to celebrate with the other 2008 babies. See what those 3 days cost you, dude?

Seriously, though, his birth could not have been better timed. Being born when he was meant so much GOOD for us. Most of my family “just happened” to be in town when he made his grand appearance and I wouldn’t trade that for any amount of tax dollars. Also, by waiting until this year’s blessing time he got to celebrate with some of our favorite 2008 babies.

This time is exactly as it is is named…a blessing. It is a blessing for the babies as they feel the warm hands of our Shepherds laid upon their tiny heads, hands and feet. It is something that the Momma’s and the Daddy’s treasure as they take a few moments to pray for their sweet little ones surrounded by a body of believers. And it is a blessing for our whole church family as we stand and remember what we are called to do- hold each other before the throne from the moment of birth through the moment we meet our Saviour. I truly love this night each year but of course it is especially sweet when I have a baby of my own being blessed and committed to the Lord’s service.

This was a special time of prayer with an elder and his wife that are so special to our family. I’m not joking when I say that he had some sort of God-ordained touch on Cbug’s leg while he prayed. I have never seen our little man sit so still and listen. That in itself was so moving to me. KJ sat very still and listened, too, but of course he had been bribed with cookies.

Ok, so maybe the whole night was not sappy sweet (if this family photo is any indication). It is always a crazy adventure to wrestle two little boys into any situation like this. If you notice a little pregnancy glow, just attribute it to the fact that I was a sweaty mess by the time this party was over (a party that ended without anyone blowing out any candles, much to KJ’s chagrin)!

Be blessed!
ABL

Capturing moments

Random side note: This is post #100 for DRRF. I think it is very fitting that the 100th post is doing exactly what this blog was created to do- capturing family moments.

We had the best time on our camping trip this weekend. I’m not sure you can technically call it camping since we put our tent up right next to a ranch house with full kitchen and bathrooms. To KJ, though, we slept in a tent and we were CAMPING.

This weekend was one of those times that I wish would last forever. One of those family memories that I just want to lock away and remember. Some memories are important because they involve significant life events, others are important just because of who you shared them with. While the weekend was not necessarily a significant life event, as the boys are growing and changing I love times when we can just be together as a family. It is so good to be away from all of the distractions of life and watch their little personalities develop. We were so blessed to be able to get away, relax with good friends and make some fun memories.

Weekend memories:
Unplugging from phones, computers, tv, etc

The “Lewis Villa” (our tent was HUGE)

Cbug’s new word “doggie” (he chased and chased those poor dogs)
Riding 4-wheelers Brothers wrestling and laughing
Digging in the sand
Throwing rocks in the creek

KJ’s excitement over his own sleeping bag

Watching my friends love on my boys

Enjoying how much our boys love their Daddy

Communion

Laughing around the table at meal time

KJ and Cbug beginning their life-long friendship with GCH

S’mores

Wildflowers

Campfires

Wagon rides

Kite flying

Sunset

Happy 100, DRRF!

ABL

House Divided

Two words….MARCH MADNESS. Gotta love it.

The Duke vs Texas game was an especially exciting one for our family as we have loyalties on both sides. As evidenced by the photos, we will let our boys wait until they are old enough to make the decision for themselves before we influence them. In the meantime, KJ can say “Go Duke” while holding up his Texas Long horns hand-sign. Poor kids may need counseling someday to survive this “holiday” at our house.
Time will tell who will win the family challenge this year! I can’t wait until the boys can do their own brackets!!
ABL

Growing

The same only bigger…

…our family is growing and so is our ride!
Sweet baby sister is so high maintenance that she required a new vehicle (before she even arrived)! Not that I mind…owning a minivan is a dream come true for me. As excited as I was, though, to bring home the new wheels, there may or may not have been a few tears shed over leaving the Camry behind. I’ve had the car long enough that we pulled these out from under the seat before we left the car at the dealership.The Camry was the first car I purchased on my own, the car that I loaded up to move to Texas, the car I drove to work at my very first “real job”, the first car I put Texas license plates on and the car that we washed in our wedding attire. While it is silly to “love” an inanimate object, I sure do love all of the memories that were packed in that little vehicle. So, it won’t come as a surprise to you that I made the car salesperson pose for the below pictures.
Goodbye, Camry! You were an amazing car. (Even the salesperson could sense my mixed-emotions and put his arm around me as I handed over the Camry keys…how funny is that!)

Hello, Sienna, and the memories still to be made. KJ for one already thinks this car is the coolest thing ever and just likes to go for ride in it. A child after my own heart!

So, we’re moving on to bigger and better things around here. Anybody need the Annie soundtrack on cassette tape?
ABL

God be in ME!

Before KJ was born, I read an article in one of those “free from the doctor’s office” magazines that actually had a profound impact on the way that I parent. It talked about being ok, as a mom, with letting there be a “Daddy way” and a “Mommy way”. It reminded moms that many times dads feel pushed out of a key parenting role because their way of doing things. In other words, if Daddy is willing to help with bed time, maybe it is ok if Daddy wrestles right before bed time even if Mommy might have chosen to sit quietly and read stories. Or maybe it means that if Daddy is willing to give the kids baths you bite your tongue when he puts a little more water in the tub than Mommy might have. I’m so thankful that this lesson came across my path BEFORE we had children and that I, for some reason, actually payed attention. I totally could have been that nagging spouse in the area of parenting that wants everything done the way I think best. RRL is an amazing Daddy and because I sometimes actually step back and watch him parent, I’ve not only learned that it is ok for him to do things differently…sometimes, I’ve actually learned that maybe (JUST MAYBE) he had a better way to do it than I did. He’s taught our boys lots of things, and I’ve learned a lot about him, too.

One of my favorite things that he taught KJ, is a little prayer that RRL learned at a youth conference. KJ does it every night and is now teaching it to Cbug. I thought some of you might like to teach it to your kids, too, so my lovely assistant (I mean, handsome) agreed to pose for a few demonstrative photos.

The prayers says…

“God be in my mind, and in my thinking”
(while pointing to your head)

“God be in my eyes, and in my seeing”
(while covering your eyes)

“God be in my ears, and in my hearing”
(while covering your ears)

“God be in my mouth, and in my speaking”
(while covering your mouth)

“God be in my life, and in my living”
(while pointing to your suspender straps)

“God be in my heart, and in my loving”
(while crossing your heart…or giving yourself a love squeeze!) AMEN!

Its such a simple, yet profound little prayer and I’m so thankful RRL brought it into our bedtime routine. Let me know if you try it at your house! (Oh, and try the give your husband a break thing, too…and hold me accountable to that while you are at it, ok?)
ABL

Rewind to Christmas #2- Family and Traditions

I know, it is February, but well…this is my blog and I can rewind back to Christmas if I want to, right? I just need to get a few more of these pictures and memories into the mix and then I can move forward. There’s the disclaimer, now for the pictures (and boy do I mean A TON OF PICTURES).

I loved spending time with all of our extended family and wouldn’t trade the memories of having so many loved ones gathered around for anything. That said, though, my very favorite part of Christmas was the special time that we spent with just our little family of 4 (and 1/2). Here are a few glimpses into our family time and some of our traditions.

Tradition #1- The family Christmas picture.
Even if I don’t get a Christmas card sent out (I’m averaging every other year), I still like to have at least one really good family Christmas picture from each year. I frame them in a Christmas frame and pull them all out to decorate each Christmas. This is our annual picture/Christmas card from 2008:

After receiving our Christmas card in the mail, one really sweet friend emailed me to tell me what a great family picture it was and how sweet the boys looked. I thanked her, but it also made me laugh. Oh, the making of a Christmas card picture. Really, a video of it would be much more entertaining, but let me see if I can paint the image for you…We started at Thanksgiving trying to get a good picture. That day and maybe a dozen others like it, we’d get the boys dressed in something cute, try to coordinate colors and find a good location. Next we’d either get someone to take the picture while practically standing on their heads just to get our boys to look in the general direction of the camera or (even better), we’d be using a tripod and take turns running back and forth to the camera, set the timer make a funny face try to get the boys attention then quickly run back to pose (and attempt to quickly wipe away the sweat). By the 21st of Dec we still don’t have a decent picture, everyone (RRL, KJ and Cbug) try not to mention Christmas cards for fear that I’ll try to pose them again, but the boys looks so cute in their railroad overalls, i can’t resist. In the picture above, KJ insisted on being the one to push the button so he and I were BOTH running back and forth and in a moment of amazingness, all 3 of the men in my life must have thought in unison “maybe if I just smile and cooperate one more time, we can end all of this madness”…and voila…a Christmas picture to be proud of!

I could probably post about 100 failed attempts at a Christmas picture, but here is one that pretty well sums them up. The picture is blurry because I’m trying to catch Cbug while snapping the shot. KJ is *fake* crying because…well, who knows. He’s 2. Need I say more?
Tradition #2- Family Fun
I do not know if I can really call this a tradition. This is the second time we’ve done it, but the first time was several years ago. We had so much fun as a family going to a huge hotel in town that has awesome Christmas decorations and best of all electric trains. We loved just walking around, being together, experiencing the wonder of it all.

Tradition #3- The candlelight service
It was great to be in town for our Church’s Candlelight service on Christmas eve. The place was PACKED and worship was incredible. What a great way to stop and remember why our family celebrates the season! My family was especially thrilled to get dressed up for yet another family photo (they just thought I would stop after we got ONE good one- yeah right!)

Tradition #4- Before bed:
I love Christmas pajamas. Aren’t they adorable (even if the wearers would prefer to wrestle instead of pose).

Before we go to sleep we have to read the Night before Christmas and the story of Christ’s birth. Here, Nonna is getting ready to read us the Night before christmas (via web cam) while we enjoy hot chococolate (or a bottle).

Almost ready to go to sleep, first we just need to leave a treat for Santa. I had it on good authority that Santa wouldn’t mind eating one of the leftover Christmas cupcakes instead of a cookie this year. KJ picked the perfect one, then we left a note.

Tradition #5- The finishing touches
After the boys were asleep, RRL and I began the task of wrapping presents and putting together the boys big gift- a basketball goal. This was our first year to have something to put together on Christmas eve- RRL did a stellar job…the first of many, I’m sure.

Lots of traditions, lots of memories, LOTS of fun!

ABL
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